Friday, December 31, 2010

My Goals for 2011 (by Jonita Barram)


As a student of education, I learned that teachers should have measurable goals, even for goals that have more to do with attitudes and values than with academic accomplishments or development of skills.

I have some ongoing goals that are hard to measure, but my prayer is that by the end of 2011, I will see discernible changes and growth in those areas—more than what I saw in 2010. These goals are more private than the ones I’ll share here.

These are four of my goals for 2011:
  1. To finish writing a book I started, and to finish it by the middle of March. It is a book for children about  missions. When I finish it, I want to pass it out for evaluation. Trying to get it published may be a goal for  2012—it depends on how the Lord leads when I’m done.
  2. To start a second book while the first book is being evaluated. Because the second one will be in a different genre and will be longer than the first book, I don’t expect to finish it before December 31, 2011.  That will be my target finish date.
  3. To read through the Bible in a year, using the schedule we recently received in our church bulletins.
  4. To make more phone calls. I hate making phone calls (but I don’t mind receiving them). I’d rather clean toilets than make phone calls. (And I cleaned toilets at Skyview Baptist Ranch one whole summer, so I know what I’m talking about.) However, as a care cluster leader, I need to be more faithful about making personal contacts. So my goal is to call each woman in my group at least once during the year—and calling to ask the ladies to do something doesn’t count.
Thank you for reading this blog. Please pray for me to reach my goals, and please feel free to hold me  accountable. I value the accountability. And I appreciate you for caring enough to read this article. God bless you!

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Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Set Goals for the Coming Year (by Stephen Simpson)


As we enter 2011, the inevitable question comes up, "What are your New Year's Resolutions?"  Year after year, January 1st comes around and we are forced to take a look inward.  Our culture and society pushes us to evaluate our lives and identify areas that need change.

This is a good practice - especially for Christians.  As Christians, we are to be constantly evaluating our lives as a part of our sanctification.

Each year as I approach January 1st, I prefer to think of goals instead of resolutions.  I think the word 'resolution' has lost some of its meaning.  A resolution sounds so official and weighty.  It sounds significant and earth-shattering.  Yet, most of us have broken thousands of resolutions.  Breaking a new year's resolution can often lead to discouragement.  You know how it works - you make this big resolution and then March comes along and you have miserably failed at keeping that resolution.  You feel like a failure.  My suggestion:  Stop making resolutions and start setting goals. 

Goals are different.  A goal is something to work towards.  Some goals are achieved and others are not.  However, not reaching a goal does not mean that you are a failure.  For example, if your goal is to save $10,000 and you only save $9,000 - you are by no means a failure.

Over the next several weeks, we (the writers on The Fountain) are going to share some of our 2011 goals with you.  In doing so, you can help keep us accountable.  Additionally, I encourage you to set your own goals.  Keep these suggestions in mind when setting your goals.
  1. Be specific.  "Be a better father" is not specific.  It is a good goal but it is not specific.  "Spend 15 minutes each day reading to my children" or "Take my daughter on a date at least once a month" are more specific goals.  
  2. Write down your goals and re-read them at least once a month.  If you do not re-read your goals throughout the year, you will forget them and subsequently fail to keep them. 
  3. Dream.  My grandfather used to say "Aim at nothing and you will hit every time!"  Dream big on at least one of your goals.  Shoot for the stars and then work hard at reaching that goal.  You may be surprised at what will happen. 
  4. Do not be afraid to fail.  If you reach all of your goals in 2011, then you did not dream big enough.  
  5. Share your goals. Tell someone about them. 
So, now it is your turn.  What are your goals for 2011?

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    Monday, December 27, 2010

    The Doll Project (by Jonita Barram)

    (some of the dolls donated towards the Doll Project)

    It began with a daughter, Connie Christensen, telling her mother, Ellen Balsley, about the group of at-risk girls she works with. And it ended with more than 30 preteen and teenage girls owning their first-ever dolls.

    Connie Christensen helps Youth for Christ Missionary Cindy Vergara work with a group of girls assigned to Cindy through the courts or through the Department of Juvenile Justice.

    Cindy uses journaling as a way to break down the walls that the girls have erected. She says: “I always prompt them with something. And they write. You could usually hear a pin drop when it’s time for journaling. They write pages.” The leaders take home the journals and then write back to the girls.

    Cindy says the girls “are more willing to tell you what’s going on in their life in this book than they are in the room in front of each other or even face-to-face alone. They don’t want to talk about some of these things.”  She says journaling is “a wonderful way for us to respond to them, write down Bible verses that they can keep going back and looking at to help them deal with whatever they’re going through.”

    One day Connie mentioned to Ellen that many of the girls have never owned a doll and that, though they are now teens, a doll is something they would like to have. Touched by this, Ellen asked her Sunday School class, the Triple Cord Ladies’ class, to look for dolls if they were at a garage sale or the like.

    Teacher Helen VanHorn became so excited about the idea that she went out and bought some used dolls, continued to remind the class about the need, and even announced the doll project to the women who  attended the Fall Dessert in November.

    As typical for our church, women from inside and outside the class responded generously. By the end of the collection time, nearly 50 dolls had been donated, with 10 designated for the Free Shopping Day. Several of the dolls are collector’s items and will be auctioned at eBay, with the proceeds to go back into the purchase of more dolls.

    In the meantime, newcomers Aggie Hodnett and her sister-in-law Rita Hodnett—along with another sister-in-law and her sister, Betty Baker and Susan Lambert—began sewing a little receiving blanket and an extra set of clothes for each doll. That’s over 30 blankets and more than 30 tiny outfits! What had been homely, used/older dolls became little darlings wrapped in those sweet blankets.

    Helen invited Cindy to speak in Sunday School the day she collected the dolls. Cindy gave her own testimony and then spoke briefly about the girls she ministers to and how much the dolls will mean to them. She spent the remainder of the time answering questions.

    After hearing about girls here in Polk County who don’t have adequate supplies for personal hygiene, who may go hungry at night, sleep on mattresses, or live in homes with no windows or doors, the women of the Triple Cord class have been moved to collect toiletries, sheets, blankets, Christmas stockings and stuffers, and more in addition to the dolls.

    But the doll collecting isn’t finished! Many of the older girls who received the dolls have younger sisters, and they would love to have a doll too.

    Cindy says that “right here in Polk County we have 8,500 delinquent girls. Every third child who is arrested and put into the juvenile justice system is a girl. The misdemeanor crime that girls are most convicted of is theft. The felony crime that they’re most convicted of is battery; they’re violent. They are hardened to each other.”

    “My heart breaks,” says Cindy, “when I go into a juvenile jail and see an eight-year-old girl. I think, What must she have been exposed to, to bring her to the point that she’s committing a crime at eight years old?”

    She says: “The girls that I minister to don’t have dolls. They’re lucky if they have food. These dolls are another way that we can break down walls and get closer to the girls. The more things we can do for these girls, the more ways that we can show them love and do things for them, the more opportunity we have to minister to them and to their families.” She says that when she goes into a home to present a doll, she will have an opportunity to minister. “And for that, I’m eternally grateful. It breaks down the walls and gives us the opportunity to share Christ with these people. The dolls are beautiful, and I thank you so much.”



    Other posts by Jonita:

      Monday, December 20, 2010

      One Solitary Life


      He was born in an obscure village, the son of a peasant woman.  He grew up in another village, where he worked in a carpenter's shop until he was thirty. Then for three years he became a wandering preacher.

      He never wrote a book.
      He never held an office.
      He never had a family or owned a house.
      He didn't go to college.
      He never visited a big city.
      He never travelled two hundred miles from the place where he was born. He did none of those things one usually associates with greatness.

      He had no credentials but himself.

      He was only thirty-three when the tide of public opinion turned against him. His friends ran away. He was turned over to his enemies and went through a mockery of a trial. He was executed by the state. While he was dying, his executioners gambled for his clothing, the only property he had on earth. When he was dead he was laid in a borrowed grave through the pity of a friend.

      Twenty centuries have come and gone, and today he is the central figure of the human race and the leader of mankind's progress. All the armies that ever marched, all the navies that ever sailed, all the parliaments that ever sat, all the kings that ever reigned, put together, have not affected the life of man on this earth as much as that One Solitary Life.


      Wednesday, December 15, 2010

      Formed By Him - An Introduction

      Thou art worthy, O Lord, to receive glory and honour and power: for thou hast created all things, and for thy pleasure they are and were created. Rev. 4:11 (Blue Jay by Dan)

      Formed By Him

      Now out of the ground the LORD God had formed every beast of the field and every bird of the heavens and brought them to the man to see what he would call them. And whatever the man called every living creature, that was its name. (Genesis 2:19 ESV)
      Fiery-throated Hummingbird by J Patterson
      I have recently started a series of blog articles about different aspects of the Lord’s Creative Hand on the birds He has created. Some of the articles will be about a specific bird and some amazing characteristics or behavior it demonstrates. The different designs or colors of birds that have been painted with the Lord’s fantastic Paintbrush could be featured or whatever else that reveals God’s Design and His Intelligence in the creation of birds.

      As I work on articles and am searching for photos of birds, other neat birds are discovered. With 10,000 plus birds flying around all over this world, the source for material should be way beyond me ever running out of things to write about. Hope you enjoy this new series, “Formed By Him.”
      Thus says the LORD who made the earth, the LORD who formed it to establish it--the LORD is his name: (Jeremiah 33:2 ESV)
      Red-cockaded Woodpeckers 2-day olds©USFWS

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      Friday, December 10, 2010

      I Will Remember the Deeds of the Lord (by Stephen Simpson)


      In Psalm 77, the Psalmist is discouraged.  He begins by crying aloud to God.  His words are a lament.  He is distressed and expresses frustration towards the Lord through a series of questions (v. 7-9)
      • Will the Lord spurn forever, and never again be favorable?
      • Has his steadfast love forever ceased?
      • Are his promises at an end for all time?
      • Has God forgotten to be gracious?
      • Has he in anger shut up his compassion?

      All of us have wrestled with these same questions.  Whenever trials come into our lives it is easy to feel like God has abandoned us.  Our soul "refuses to be comforted" and our spirit moans.

      But, just like the Psalmist, we can find hope in remembering "the deeds of the Lord" and his "wonders of old." (v.11)  Hope returns when we ponder all his works and meditate on all his mighty deeds. (v.12)

      The works of God in the past strengthen our hope and faith for the future.  Therefore, it is vitally important to always remember what God has done.  We must never forget.  We must pass on to our children and our grandchildren the stories of God's faithfulness to us.

      The Psalmist does this in Chapter 77 by recalling how God mightily worked to lead the children of Israel out of Egypt and into the Promised Land.

      The conclusion is simple:  The God who led the Israelites out of Egypt is still the same God.  He is still faithful to his children.

      I encourage you to take a minute and reflect on this question.
      What has the Lord done in my life that I need to remember?

      Wednesday, December 8, 2010

      Headlines - December's Links

      Here are this month's 'headlines' - things from cyberspace that have recently caught our attention.  Enjoy!

      • Answers in Genesis recently announced "the planned construction of a full-scale Noah’s Ark tourist attraction in northern Kentucky."  Learn more at their site http://arkencounter.com/  Looks like fun!
      • Here's some Free December Wallpaper for you computer desktop.
      • 2010 Hubble Space Telescope Advent Calendar - Boston.com has presented an Advent Calendar this Christmas season featuring photos from the Hubble Telescope.  They plan to add a new photo each day in December.
      • Maybe you've heard of the random performances of Handel's Messiah that have been popping up across the country.  Here is one that took place in a mall food court.

          
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            Monday, December 6, 2010

            Sermon Archives: Four Words to See Us Through Difficult Days


            Recently, Pastor Osborne preached a message entitled Four Words to See Us Through Difficult Days.  In this message Pastor gave us help for those difficult days which will inevitably come.  Here is a quote from the message:
            "Faith teaches us not just that God knows all but that God knows best!"
            Download or listen to the message on our website.

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            Friday, December 3, 2010

            Birds of the Bible - God's Provision for His Creatures (by Lee Dusing)

            Common Cuckoo (Cuculus canorus) being raised by a Reed Warbler©WikiC
            Common Cuckoo (Cuculus canorus) being raised by a Reed Warbler©WikiC
            The LORD is good to all, And His tender mercies are over all His works. (Psalms 145:9 NKJV)
            The following thoughts and verses are from R. A.Torrey's Topical Textbook under the category of The Providence of God.

            Preserving His creatures:

            Lilian's Lovebird (Agapornis lilianae) by Africaddict
            Lilian's Lovebird (Agapornis lilianae) by Africaddict
            You alone are the LORD; You have made heaven, The heaven of heavens, with all their host, The earth and everything on it, The seas and all that is in them, And You preserve them all. The host of heaven worships You. (Nehemiah 9:6 NKJV)
            Northern Cardinal by Aestheticphotos
            Your righteousness is like the great mountains; Your judgments are a great deep; O LORD, You preserve man and beast. (Psalms 36:6 NKJV)
            House Sparrow (Passer domesticus) by Nikhil Devasar
            House Sparrow (Passer domesticus) by Nikhil Devasa
            Are not two sparrows sold for a copper coin? And not one of them falls to the ground apart from your Father's will. (Matthew 10:29 NKJV)
            Providing for His creatures:

            Sandhill Crane (Grus canadensis) flock ©USFWS
            Sandhill Crane (Grus canadensis) flock ©USFWS
            These all wait for You, That You may give them their food in due season. What You give them they gather in; You open Your hand, they are filled with good. (Psalms 104:27-28 NKJV)
            Western Great Egret (Ardea alba) With Fish by AestheticPhotos
            Western Great Egret (Ardea alba) With Fish by AestheticPhotos
            Who giveth food to all flesh: for his mercy endureth for ever. (Psalms 136:25 KJV)

            Northern Raven (Corvus corax) by Ray
            Northern Raven (Corvus corax) by Ra
            He giveth to the beast his food, and to the young ravens which cry. (Psalms 147:9 KJV)
            Seashore at MacDill AFB by Lee
            Seashore at MacDill AFB by Lee

            Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? (Matthew 6:26 NKJV)
            Lee's addition:

            Yellow-throated Vireo (Vireo flavifrons) ©WikiC
            Yellow-throated Vireo (Vireo flavifrons) ©WikiC
            But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble. (Matthew 6:33-34 NKJV)
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            Wednesday, December 1, 2010

            Ten Things I'm Thankful For (by Bobby Thompson)

            1. A faithful, gracious, sovereign God
            2. A beautiful, loving, supportive wife
            3. 3, fun, adorable, challenging children (see above)
            4. A servant leader for a boss
            5. God's piercing and encouraging Word
            6. Good health
            7. The forgiveness of sin
            8. Daily provisions
            9. Good books
            10. Golf

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              Monday, November 29, 2010

              8 Things I'm Thankful For (by Stephen Simpson)

              1. My Wife ~ She is an excellent wife and mother.  I am extremely thankful that she is able to stay at home with our children.
              2. My Two Redheads ~ My two daughters are a blessing from the Lord.  I love listening to them sing!
              3. Financial Peace University ~ It is difficult to put into words how much this class has helped Nicki and me with our personal finances.  I am so thankful that I had the opportunity to take this class.
              4. Five Guys  ~ The best hamburgers and fries around.  Period.
              5. A Job ~ I pray that I never take employment for granted.  I am thankful for the job that the Lord has provided. 
              6. itunes ~ I cannot remember the last time I bought an actual CD that I can hold in my hand.  If you don't understand this one - ask your grandchildren :) 
              7. My Church Family ~ I am thankful for the wonderful church family that the Lord has blessed me with.
              8. Books by Mail ~ Did you know that you can go to our local library's website, pick out a book, and they will actually mail it directly to your house?  Did you know that they do this for free?  I am thankful for Books by Mail!

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                Friday, November 26, 2010

                Thankful Thoughts (by Peter Brock)

                As we run through our days, we so often fail to pause long enough to reflect on those gifts God has given us for which we are thankful. The Thanksgiving holiday provides us opportunity to express our thankfulness for those gifts.  Here are some things I'm thankful for.

                1. A good and gracious God.

                2. A wife that I have loved for over 25 years will love till death.

                3. My kids. They're great!

                4. A church family that humbles me weekly with it's display of Christ-like love.

                5. The Word of God. It humbles, challenges, rebukes and encourages me everyday.

                6. Smaller gifts from our provider God, Jehovah-Jireh, that are too numerous to list.

                Monday, November 22, 2010

                Birds of the Bible - Thanksgiving (by Lee Dusing)

                When Stephen asked us to write about 10 (+ or -) things we are thankful for, I am sure he knew that I would write about the birds. How can we be thankful for the birds?

                White-winged Scoter (Melanitta deglandi) by Ray
                White-winged Scoter by Ray
                So God created the great sea creatures and every living creature that moves, with which the waters swarm, according to their kinds, and every winged bird according to its kind. And God saw that it was good. (Genesis 1:21 ESV)
                I am thankful for a Creator God, the Lord, who made not only the birds, but all of us as well. "Know ye that the LORD he is God: it is he that hath made us, and not we ourselves; we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture."  (Psa 100:3)
                Channel-billed Toucan (Ramphastos vitellinus) by Ian
                Channel-billed Toucan by Ian
                Now out of the ground the LORD God had formed every beast of the field and every bird of the heavens and brought them to the man to see what he would call them. And whatever the man called every living creature, that was its name. (Genesis 2:19 ESV)
                I am thankful that the LORD God gave Adam the privilege and the knowledge to name the birds. We were created with intellect and didn't have to progress up through evolution to finally get "smart enough" to name the birds. Adam wasn't even a week old.
                The fear of you and the dread of you shall be upon every beast of the earth and upon every bird of the heavens, upon everything that creeps on the ground and all the fish of the sea. Into your hand they are delivered. Every moving thing that lives shall be food for you. And as I gave you the green plants, I give you everything. (Genesis 9:2-3 ESV)
                Wild Turkey (Meleagris gallopavo) by Daves BirdingPix
                Wild Turkey by Daves BirdingPix
                I am thankful for the food the Lord has allowed us to eat. Many of us will be eating Turkey this Thanksgiving Day. (Even if it is sometimes sad to think about.)
                I know all the birds of the hills, and all that moves in the field is mine. (Psalms 50:11 ESV)
                I am thankful that just as God knows all the birds, He knows us. "Because he hath set his love upon me, therefore will I deliver him: I will set him on high, because he hath known my name." (Psalms 91:14 KJV)
                Greater Painted Snipe (Rostratula benghalensis) by W Kwong
                Greater Painted Snipe by W Kwong
                Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin, (Matthew 6:25-28 ESV)
                Chihuahuan Raven (Corvus cryptoleucus)Raven (Corvus corax) by Kent Nickell
                Chihuahuan Raven by Kent Nickell
                For life is more than food, and the body more than clothing. Consider the ravens: they neither sow nor reap, they have neither storehouse nor barn, and yet God feeds them. Of how much more value are you than the birds! And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? If then you are not able to do as small a thing as that, why are you anxious about the rest? (Luke 12:23-26 ESV)
                Three Sparrows
                Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? And not one of them will fall to the ground apart from your Father. But even the hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear not, therefore; you are of more value than many sparrows.  (Matthew 10:29-31 ESV)
                I am thankful for these three parallel verses that remind us that God cares about not only every need of the birds, but also for ours. We are more valuable than them and He provides everything for them and knows all about them. Why do we need to be anxious?
                Common Starling (Sturnus vulgaris) at Nest by Anthony747
                Common Starling at Nest by Anthony
                And Jesus said to him, "Foxes have holes, and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head." (Matthew 8:20 ESV)
                I am very thankful that the Lord Jesus Christ, became my Savior.
                Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God: But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men: And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross. (Philippians 2:6-8 KJV)
                Crested Partridge (Rollulus rouloul) at NA by Lee
                Crested Partridge (Rollulus rouloul) at NA by Lee

                The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it? I the LORD search the heart, I try the reins, even to give every man according to his ways, and according to the fruit of his doings. As the partridge sitteth on eggs, and hatcheth them not; so he that getteth riches, and not by right, shall leave them in the midst of his days, and at his end shall be a fool. (Jeremiah 17:9-11 KJV)
                I am thankful for the partridge that reminds me not to seek earthly riches unjustly.

                Bald Eagle flying by Dave's BirdingPix
                Bald Eagle flying by Dave's BirdingPix

                Have you not known? Have you not heard? The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He does not faint or grow weary; his understanding is unsearchable. He gives power to the faint, and to him who has no might he increases strength. Even youths shall faint and be weary, and young men shall fall exhausted; but they who wait for the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint. (Isaiah 40:28-31 ESV)

                I am thankful for the wings of the Eagle to remind me of all the promises in this passage. Our God is the everlasting God, doesn't faint or grow weary, omniscient, omnipotent, omnipresent and the Creator. Awesome!
                Oriental Turtle Dove (Streptopelia orientalis) by Nikhil
                Oriental Turtle Dove by Nikhil

                But if he cannot afford two turtledoves or two pigeons, then he shall bring as his offering for the sin that he has committed a tenth of an ephah of fine flour for a sin offering. He shall put no oil on it and shall put no frankincense on it, for it is a sin offering. (Leviticus 5:11 ESV)

                I am thankful for doves and pigeons because they remind me that in the Old Testament they were innocently sacrificed for a person's sin. That was looking forward to the death of Christ on the cross. I am thankful for my salvation in Jesus Christ.
                We know that Christ, being raised from the dead, will never die again; death no longer has dominion over him. For the death he died he died to sin, once for all, but the life he lives he lives to God. (Romans 6:9-10 ESV)

                My little children, these things write I unto you, that ye sin not. And if any man sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous: And he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world. (1 John 2:1-2 KJV)

                Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God. He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love. In this was manifested the love of God toward us, because that God sent his only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through him. Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another.  (1 John 4:7-11 KJV)

                Friday, November 19, 2010

                8 Things I'm Thankful For (Jonita Barram)

                1. Florida. I love living here. I’m thankful for sunshine, verdant growth, rain, breezes, palm trees, blue skies, gray skies, love-bugs. Mild winters. Senior citizens. Citrus. Beaches. History. No state income tax.
                   
                2. Children. I have no kids, but I enjoy other people’s children. The Lord used preschool kids to show me His fruit in my life. For seven years I taught in the preschool department of my previous church. God made me gentle, patient, kind, and loving in ways that the younger me could never have imagined. He recently let me interact with children in Haiti, and I loved it. I’m thankful for them and for the opportunity.
                  Jonita and Gayel, one of the Haitian
                  children she met on her trip to Haiti
                    
                3. My ladies’ Sunday School class. One day in Helen VanHorn’s home, our class took turns sharing prayer requests, as well as just talking. The Lord put in my heart a love for each lady there. And, wonder of wonders, He put love for me in their hearts. Each one is a blessing and encouragement to me! I am so thankful for them.
                   
                4. My “Other Mothers.” My parents became missionaries my senior year in high school. They stayed in Brazil, I came to the States. They moved to Portugal, I moved to Illinois. I rarely saw them, but God provided me with women who mothered me, particularly a lady named Connee Woolford. Now my mother is in Heaven, but God has blessed me with “other mothers” at Faith: Sandy Campbell and Ellen Balsley. I am very thankful to have them in my life!
                   
                5. Sisters who are friends. My closest sister is 19-months younger than me. When we were little we fought a lot. Now we’re good friends. She encourages me in my walk with God. My other sister is nearly seven years younger than me, but in many ways she’s the older sister. She lives in Lakeland and takes good care of me. She is my best friend. I’m so thankful for my sisters.

                  Jonita with two sisters, Lori and Sandy
                   
                6. Heaven. I am thankful that God the Son is preparing a place in Heaven for me so that I can spend eternity with God in a place that is more beautiful, peaceful, and glorious than any place on earth—and there are many spectacular places on earth. I am thankful for the millions of believers who will be there and for the perfect love we will share then.
                   
                7. The Word of God. Without it, we would know so little about God. I am thankful that it never becomes old; it always has something to say to wherever my life is at the moment.
                   
                8. God and salvation. Wow! I am thankful that God is love as well as just. I’m thankful that His character drove Him to provide salvation. I’m thankful He chose to glorify Himself by saving me instead of letting me continue on my way to Hell!

                Wednesday, November 17, 2010

                Headlines - November's Links

                Here are this month's 'headlines' - things from cyberspace that have recently caught our attention.  Enjoy!
                  
                Slave by John MacArthur:

                  
                Bonhoeffer by Eric Metaxas:

                  Monday, November 15, 2010

                  I Am Thankful For... (Matthew DelValle)


                  Every year my family writes out what we are thankful for on note cards and reads them out loud to each other after our Thanksgiving meal. It is a great opportunity to reflect on God’s goodness to me. The Lord has lavished so many blessings upon this sinner who deserves only God’s righteous judgment. Yet instead he gives me grace upon grace. Here is just a short summary of what I am thankful for:
                  1. My Lord and my Savior; my God and my King; the Creator and Sustainer of all things; the One who was and is and is to come—Jesus Christ.
                  2. Parents whose marriage pictures Christ and the church, a temporary parable of a permanent reality, who raised me to love God and others.
                  3. A brother who admonishes and exhorts me to godliness—a best friend I treasure dearly.
                  4. A new sister whose imperishable beauty is in the heart, a gentle and quiet spirit, precious in God's sight. I couldn't have asked for a better sister-in-law.
                  5. Family that truly enjoys beings a family, and making sure to spend the most significant times of the year together.
                  6. Friends that have been there for so many years I consider them like family, and great traditions we enjoy together like soccer on Thanksgiving.

                  Make a joyful noise to the LORD, all the earth! Serve the LORD with gladness! Come into his presence with singing! Know that the LORD, he is God! It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture. Enter his gates with thanksgiving, and his courts with praise! Give thanks to him; bless his name! For the LORD is good; his steadfast love endures forever, and his faithfulness to all generations.  (Psalm 100)

                  Friday, November 12, 2010

                  Ten Things I Am Thankful For (Dave Totman)

                  Thanksgiving is just around the corner and so I thought it appropriate to ask several of our blog authors to share with us what they are thankful for.  Today is the first of several articles that will appear throughout the month of November.  Be sure to take some time this month to reflect on all that you are thankful for! 


                  10 Things Dave Totman is Thankful For

                  1. The opportunity to work with international students
                  2. The ability to read and the blessing of resources to read
                  3. The opportunity to study the Bible for my job
                  4. Great bosses at every level (Sahel Academy, mission leaders, church leaders)
                  5. The Faith’s 100 missions program – what a blessing to so many!
                  6. Appliances that work well and a vehicle that starts and has AC
                  7. Friends that pray for me and hold me accountable
                  8. Three kids that love God and are full of life
                  9. A beautiful, incredible wife that has stuck with me through 150 months (Nov. 16!!) of a wild journey called marriage
                  10. God’s grace, sovereignty, forgiveness, justice and love – all amazing attributes individually, but combined . . . indescribable!

                  Wednesday, November 10, 2010

                  Veteran's Day (Lou Gentry)


                  Do you ever stop and think about the freedom we enjoy in this country? We owe a tremendous debt to those men and women who have served in our armed forces so that we might remain free in this country. And yet we so often forget their sacrifices. All have sacrificed time. Many have sacrificed their lives. Some have sacrificed limbs or eyesight or hearing. Just walk around a veterans' hospital one day, and look at the permanent wounds of those who have made some kind of sacrifice for this country.

                  But we so often take those sacrifices--and the reason they were made--for granted. Tragically, our country has forsaken, bit by bit, its original calling. Consequently, those who have served--including those who died in battle--might be dismayed at how far we've drifted from being one nation under God. One writer asked a disturbing question in a letter to the editor: "What would the veterans who died in World War I, World War II, Vietnam, and Korea--by the hundreds of thousands--say if they could see the lifestyle in the United States today? Would they say, 'Is this what I gave my life for? Was it worth it?'" So many in our country have taken liberty too far, using the term to justify whatever they want to do.

                  Tomorrow is Veterans Day.  Let's remember those who served this country. Let's also pray earnestly for our nation and its leadership--particularly those newly elected to office--that we would turn around and repent so that we may not lose our freedom, so that all those who have fought will not have done so in vain. God promises clemency for the nation that repents.

                  (Taken, in part, from New Every Morning by Dr. D. James Kennedy.)

                  Monday, November 8, 2010

                  Faith and Reason (Matthew DelValle)

                  Last spring I was tutoring a student who wrote a sociology paper on how our society demeans women. At the end of the paper the student wrote, “I believe […]” and then restated her thesis. The professor had already briefly reviewed the paper and upon spotting the word “believe” crossed it out and wrote in the word "think." She added a comment on the paper that said this: “Faith = Belief.”

                  I spotted this and recognized what this professor was conveying to the student. She was asserting that faith is not based on rational thought. It is an opinion not based on objective facts. To write, “I think,” conveys, at least for the professor, that the author has thought things through and reached a reasonable conclusion, an informed opinion. Faith, on the other hand, does no such thing; it blindly believes.

                  The Mind and the Christian Life
                  This presents a problem. If we define faith in this way, then faith loses its credibility. It is not for the thinking man; it is for the blind. For Christians this is particularly problematic. Everywhere in Scripture, from the teaching of Moses to the instruction of the apostles, we are told to use our minds to believe, articulate, defend, and guard the faith. Take the teaching of the apostle Paul for example. Paul instructed Timothy, “Think over what I say, for the Lord will give you understanding in everything” (2 Tim. 2:7). He told the church in Corinth, “Brothers, do not be children in your thinking. Be infants in evil, but in your thinking be mature” (1 Cor. 14:20).

                  Paul himself modeled a faith controlled by sound thinking in his presentation of the gospel to the Jews in Thessalonica, as “he reasoned with them from the Scriptures, explaining and proving that it was necessary for the Christ to suffer and to rise from the dead” (Acts 17:2-3). The Christian faith requires rigorous thought in order to grow in our knowledge of the Lord.

                  Of course, there is a sense in which the mind is unhelpful: “The natural person does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are folly to him, and he is not able to understand them because they are spiritually discerned” (2 Cor. 2:14). Because we are sinners by nature, every facet of our being is corrupted by sin – our hearts, our wills, and our minds. Our natural minds do not comprehend the things of God; they do not make sense to us. They appear to us as pure “folly.”

                  The problem, however, is not our minds; the problem is sin. Our minds were created by God to know truth and the God of truth, to help us exercise dominion over the earth, and to bring glory to God. Our minds are inherently good, not evil. What is needed, then, is redemption – renewal – of the mind. This starts with the regenerating work of the Holy Spirit and continues in His sanctifying work, as He brings our minds closer and closer to holy thinking that results in holy living. “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect” (Rom. 12:2). We are to pursue right thinking because “we have the mind of Christ” (1 Cor. 2:16).

                  This is why the Christian faith appears as folly to the world but in reality is intensely reasonable. The Christian faith is based on objective, external facts: the reign over creation by the almighty, holy, triune God, the rebellion into sin by created man, and the redemption of sinners by the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ, the Son of God – all objective, external realities that ground the response of repentance and faith by those who trust in Christ for salvation. This is the message Paul preached, “not in plausible words of wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit of power, that your faith might not rest in the wisdom of men but in the power of God” (1 Cor. 2:4-5). This is why we must always be ready “to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you” (1 Pet. 3:15).

                  A Reality Check
                  But I digress. What about the student’s paper? I was witnessing firsthand the “wisdom of the world.” I decided to engage in a bit of apologetic training for the student (apologia = a defense). Granted, she did not ask for it (she just wanted to get a good grade), but I felt compelled to give it anyway. This is what I told her:

                  Ask your teacher if she believes that gravity will hold her down to earth and prevent her from floating into orbit, and if it will return her to the ground should she take a leap into the air. If she says “yes,” ask her why. What are her reasons for trusting gravity? Has she thought through her belief? If she says “no,” ask her why. What reasons does she have for deeming gravity as untrustworthy?

                  It took a while for the student to understand what I was communicating, but she eventually got it. Faith does not have to mean by default objective, external facts are thrown out the window. Admittedly, certain faiths and beliefs are rooted in pure speculation and thus hold no rational weight. But this does not mean that pure speculation is a condicio sine qua non of faith. The sociology professor had thrown the baby out with the bath water, so to speak. As a sociologist (who claim to be essentially objective and unbiased because they work with tangible data/evidence), I understand her desire to distance herself and her students from pure speculation. But she made a faulty assumption that faith necessarily does not work with tangible, objective, external facts.

                  In the end, I told the student that she was not incorrect in using the word “believe” to express her thesis. However, I did not tell her to oppose the word change to “think.” “Think” was just as appropriate for her paper as “believe,” and her paper was not necessarily strengthened or weakened by one term over the other. My main goal was to persuade the student about the crucial relationship of reason to faith: that if our faith is to be a good faith – a strong faith – then reason is indispensable. I would argue almost the opposite way: reason is a condicio sine qua non of faith. How we can we trust what is not trustworthy or even real? No – we trust what we know to be trustworthy.

                  Exercise Your Reason!
                  There is true value in rigorous use of the mind. Christians of all people should be most passionate about educating our minds with truth. But what are the benefits of this disciplined way of thinking? What is the value of apologetics? I saw two basic ways apologetics is useful from this episode alone:

                  1. Apologetics is helpful but not sufficient for evangelism. There was an intellectual quandary encountered with this student. It is a dilemma that we as Christians face. How shall we harmonize faith and reason? I had the opportunity to explain this tension from a Christian worldview. However, I did not present the gospel to the student. My job is to help students improve their writing, and I was attempting to show that “believe” was an appropriate word choice. Had I been off the clock, I would have made the leap to Christianity as a faith founded on reasonable truths.

                    The point is this: apologetics can provide an opportunity to present the message of the gospel, but it is not a substitute for presenting the gospel. Many people have questions about all sorts of matters, and the ability to answer tough questions can lead to evangelistic opportunities. That is one of the great values of apologetics.
                     
                  2. Apologetics strengthens the faith of other believers. I have experienced this firsthand in my own life. From watching videos of R.C. Sproul and Ravi Zacharias and John Lennox, to attending conferences and listening to great men of God respond to questions, I learn how to give reasonable answers. In addition, I gain confidence that for matters that I don’t know how to answer, there are Christians out there who can. Knowing that Christianity can stand under the closest scrutiny is incredibly strengthening to my faith.
                  Shortly after the student left the tutoring station, my friend Cory came by as he usually does to say hello for a few minutes. I proceeded to recount the story to him as I have done here. The reaction on his face expressed it all. It was as if a light went on in his head. He told me that was really cool and he needed to keep coming by when I work to get such nuggets to chew on (my paraphrase). As we talked, a girl who was standing nearby overheard our conversation and came and asked us if we were Christians. She said she had transferred to PSC from Southeastern and was wondering if there were any Christians on campus. It was so encouraging to her to hear two guys discussing the deeper things of God.

                  This is why I write these posts and share what I learn. I do it because I want to strengthen my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ with what the Lord teaches me in my daily life. I do it for any who read these posts and are not persuaded about the sufficiency of Jesus Christ to save by faith alone. Apologetics is helpful to accomplish both ends. May we as Christians long for the solid food of the Word and grow up from infants to mature believers in the Lord, and may God grant us the grace to do it by the power of the indwelling Holy Spirit, so that in all things God might get the glory.

                  Friday, November 5, 2010

                  Book Recommendation - When God Doesn't Answer Your Prayer

                  When God Doesn't Answer Your Prayer: Insights to Keep You Praying with Greater Faith and Deeper Hope 

                  In January of this year, Camp Gilead hosted a Men's Retreat.  Several from our church attended.  Pastor Peter Hubbard from North Hills Community Church, in South Carolina, was the main speaker and brought several messages from Matthew 7.  At one point during the weekend, he recommended a book entitled When God Doesn't Answer Your Prayer by Jerry Sittser.  After the conference was over, my father bought several copies of the book and gave me one to read.  (Thanks Dad!)

                  It took me a while, but I eventually I finished reading the book.  One chapter in particular stood out to me.  Chapter 3 is entitled "Can God Take Our Complaints?"  In my opinion, that one chapter makes the whole book worth reading.

                  In this chapter Sittser addresses the emotion that we often feel toward God when He doesn't answer our prayers.  Most of us have experienced that natural unavoidable emotion that comes after a tragedy.  We feel like God has let us down.  Often we want to express our emotion to God but feel guilty about telling God that we are angry with Him.  Sittser explains it well, "The real question, then, is not whether we have emotion but what we do with it, especially when God is the one to whom our emotion is directed.  After all, he is sovereign, and therefore ultimately responsible for what happens int he world."  (p. 61)

                  So, we feel stuck.  We know that the solution is to take our emotion and grief to God.  But, we don't want to because we feel angry at what God has done and don't want to be honest with Him.  We feel ashamed and hesitant to 'let God know' how we honestly feel.  (As if He doesn't already know!)

                  Sittser wisely points us to the Psalms.  "The Psalms put negative emotions into words.  Half the Psalms contain complaints, usually directed toward God.  The psalmist does not hesitate to wrestle with God, cry out to God, weep before, even blame God for misery and suffering."  (p. 63)  Later he writes, "that we pray honestly seems to be as important as praying properly."  (p. 67)  This was the important lesson that I took away from the book.  God can handle our complaints.  God can handle my brutal honesty.  

                  This book is not easy to read.  It is not a book will leave you with a warm fuzzy feeling.  It will challenge your convictions and force you to examine your heart.

                  Wednesday, November 3, 2010

                  Hymn of the Month - The Sands of Time are Sinking

                   


                  First published in 1875, The Sands of Time Are Sinking, is most well-known hymn text of Anne Ross Cousin.  The original version contained 19 stanzas.  I have included 5 of the more common stanzas below.  Mrs. Cousin had been greatly helped by the writings of Samuel Rutherford (1600-1661), a Scottish Pastor.  At one point in his ministry Rutherford was banished for his opposition to the State Church of Scotland.  During that banishment, he wrote many letters to his congregation. C.H. Spurgeon wrote of those letters, "When we are dead and gone let the world know that Spurgeon held Rutherford’s Letters to be the nearest thing to inspiration which can be found in all the writings of mere men"


                  It is said that on his deathbed, Rutherford uttered the words, "Glory, glory dwelleth in Immanuel's Land."  These words and the life of Rutherford became the inspiration for Anne Ross Cousin's hymn.  Take a minute to read and meditate on this great text.


                  The sands of time are sinking, the dawn of Heaven breaks;
                  The summer morn I’ve sighed for—the fair, sweet morn awakes:
                  Dark, dark hath been the midnight, but dayspring is at hand,
                  And glory, glory dwelleth in Immanuel’s land.

                  O Christ, He is the fountain, the deep, sweet well of love!
                  The streams on earth I’ve tasted more deep I’ll drink above:
                  There to an ocean fullness His mercy doth expand,
                  And glory, glory dwelleth in Immanuel’s land.

                  With mercy and with judgment my web of time He wove,
                  And aye, the dews of sorrow were lustered with His love;
                  I’ll bless the hand that guided, I’ll bless the heart that planned
                  When throned where glory dwelleth in Immanuel’s land.

                  O I am my Beloved’s and my Beloved’s mine!
                  He brings a poor vile sinner into His “house of wine.”
                  I stand upon His merit—I know no other stand,
                  Not even where glory dwelleth in Immanuel’s land.

                  The Bride eyes not her garment, but her dear Bridegroom’s face;
                  I will not gaze at glory but on my King of grace.
                  Not at the crown He giveth but on His piercèd hand;
                  The Lamb is all the glory of Immanuel’s land.

                  Monday, November 1, 2010

                  Thankful for What God Gives Me or Thankful for the Giver?


                  As the Thanksgiving holiday approaches, I want to direct our attention to the object of our gratitude. Too often our minds are focused on the benefits and gifts and far too often we neglect the Giver. John Piper in his book, A Godward Life, takes the reader back to Jonathan Edwards to teach us about true gratitude and thanksgiving. Gleaning from Edward's writings in Religious Affections, Piper says:
                  "And God is not glorified if the foundation of our gratitude is the worth of the gift and not the excellency of the Giver. If gratitude is not rooted in the beauty of God before the gift, it is probably disguised idolatry. May God grant us a heart to delight in him for who he is so that all our gratitude for his gifts will be the echo of our joy in the excellency of the Giver!"
                  Link here to read the entire entry by Piper. May our hearts and minds be consumed with the divine Giver.