Sunday, March 24, 2013

What We Sow, We Reap (by Jonita Barram)


Did you hear about the teenagers whose SUV ran off the road into a pond? Six of the eight died. I felt bad as I read about them the first time. Their poor families!

Then I learned more—they had stolen the SUV. One of the mothers shared that her son and his best friend “lied about staying over at each other’s homes that evening.” She thinks they went to a party. “If only he had listened,” she says. “I told him, ‘Don’t you go nowhere.’ But they’re kids” (Fox News). I felt worse. This was no tragic accident of innocent people doing nothing wrong. This was a consequence of sinful choices. Oh, if they had only made wise choices! (If only they had just been getting up to get ready for Sunday School that morning!)

“But they’re kids.” That mother may mean that children—or in this case, teenagers—often think they know better than adults, that they are indestructible, that bad things won’t/can’t happen to them.

The Bible has a word for this. In the King James Version, it’s “froward.” It means “habitually disposed to disobedience and opposition.” Obviously, not all kids are froward and all froward people are not kids. Certainly, before we accepted Christ as our Savior, we were disposed to disobedience and opposition. Our sinful hearts were froward. And just like any other sin, frowardness can raise its ugly head even in a believer’s heart. That’s why God tells us to submit ourselves to Him (James 4:7).

Here’s another word, “presumptuous.” It means “overstepping due bounds; taking liberties.” King David asked God to keep him from presumptuous sins. The NIV puts it this way: “Keep your servant also from willful sins; may they not rule over me. Then I will be blameless, innocent of great transgression” (Psalm 19:13; italics added).

Those teens who stole a vehicle and went joyriding, or whatever they were doing, disobeyed the law, parents, and common sense. They willfully did wrong. There were consequences. Deadly consequences.

It is taking liberties (presuming) on God’s mercy to assume He will not let us suffer the consequences of our unwise choices or our sin. And it greatly dishonors Him when we disobey and oppose Him (are froward).

Twenty years ago, the Lord taught me a lesson from the life of James Jordan Sr. He did not do anything wrong, but he did do something that ended in his death: he pulled over to the side of the road in his Lexus to take a nap—something he and others did frequently. In the past, it hadn’t been dangerous to do that, but by 1993 it was.

Two young men spotted his car, killed him, and stole the vehicle. The lesson: don’t presume that because you’ve often done something unwise without horrible consequences that you won’t ever face consequences. When I have a choice to make, I often remind myself that because I seemed to get away with something before (like pulling to the side of the road in a bad area of town or traveling without a cell phone), “I can’t count on getting away with it again. Remember James Jordan.” This carries over into the area of sin too.

That’s a lesson I hope the young people of Faith Baptist Church learn now, especially those disposed to a froward or presumptuous attitude. God’s Word says, “Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man [or woman/boy/girl/youth] sows, that he will also reap” (Galatians 6:7).

Learn from James Jordan—presume on God’s protection when you do something unwise, and there may be consequences.

Learn from those eight teens—sow willful disobedience and opposition, and there will be consequences.

Saturday, March 16, 2013

The Conviction to Lead: 25 Principles for Leadership That Matters (a book recommendation)


I recently finished Albert Mohler's new book, The Conviction to Lead:  25 Principles for Leadership that Matters.  It was fantastic and I highly recommend it.  With only 213 pages, the book was easily accessible and I never felt bogged down.  Mohler structured the book around 25 short leadership principles and spent one chapter on each one.  My favorite chapters were Leaders are Readers (12), Leadership as Stewardship (16), The Leader as Writer (20), and The Leader's Legacy (25).

Here are some highlights from the book.
  • "Management is not the same as leadership."  p. 16
      
  • "You can divide all leaders into those who merely hold an office or position and those who hold great convictions."  p. 25
      
  • "This book is written with the concern that far too much of what passes for leadership today is mere management.  Without convictions you might be able to manage, but you cannot really lead."  p. 26
      
  • "A robust and rich model of Christian thinking - the quality of thinking that culminates in a God-centered worldview - requires that we see all truth as interconnected."  p. 45
       
  • "Passion must arise out of conviction."  p. 52
        
  • "When the mission is ambiguous and the beliefs of the organization are nebulous, passion dissipates quickly."  p. 55
        
  • "The conscious denial of reality is a central danger of leadership, and the leader must defend against this temptation."  p. 61
        
  • "If the right decision were always clear to everyone, we would not need leaders."  p. 63
         
  • "The best leaders know that the road to great effectiveness is paved with intentional communications, and the very best leaders are always learning how to be even more effective as communicators."  p. 92
       
  • "If a leader has to look for a message, his leadership is doomed."  p. 92
        
  • "When a true leader shows up, we already know what he is going to say."  p. 97
        
  • "A leader without accountability is an accident waiting to happen."  p. 112
        
  • "Common goals are the product of intensive communication, enduring influence, and constant affirmation."  p. 118
        
  • "The sovereignty of God puts us in our place, and that place is in God's service." p. 135
        
  • "Leaders have to be concerned not only with what their organization is doing but with what it ought to be doing."  p. 138
        
  • "Indecisiveness is one of history's greatest leadership killers."  p. 142
        
  • "Leaders will be humble, or they will be humbled."  p. 154
        
  • "Leaders write because words matter and because the written word matters longer and reaches farther than the words we speak."  p. 172
       
  • "The leaders who make the biggest difference are those with long tenure."  p. 191
        
  • "Leaders often overestimate what can be accomplished in a single year, but underestimate what can be accomplished in a decade."  p. 194
        
  • "There is no place as humbling as a cemetery - and there is no place more likely to remind the leader of the limits of one's leadership."  p. 201
         
  • "There are no indispensable people, only indispensable convictions."  p. 202
        
  • "The leader's central concern with regard to legacy is the perpetuation of conviction."  p. 208
        
Buy this book today from Amazon.

Friday, March 8, 2013

Mission Conference Recap & Highlights (by Stephen Simpson)


Some highlights from David Totman's Messages:
  • Friday Night "Pursuing God"
    • "The righteous pursue a relationship with God and enjoy its results." 
    • "Can I describe my relationship with God as a 'pursuit?'"
    • "The wise person chooses to 'plant' themselves near God.  The foolish person chooses the wisdom of the world and distances themselves far from God."
    • The tree in Psalm 1 was planted 'intentionally' by the streams of water.  It was no accident.  
    • "Being blessed is a result of choosing the right path.  There is a blessing that comes from choosing to place ourselves right next to God." 
  • Sunday morning "The Power of Influence"
    • "There is a lot of grey in our society today." 
    • What are the major influences in my life?  We must be discerning about our sources of influence.
    • The righteous person avoids sinful influences.
    • The righteous person desires God's influence.
    • "Is what is coming through your phone influencing you in a positive way?" 
Jeff & Becky Raymond
Jeff & Becky Raymond, Visual Communications Missionaries with ABWE
  • The Raymonds help other missionaries communicate clearly and effectively with their supporters.  
  • "Whatever God is asking you to do, He will give you everything you need to do it."  Becky Raymond (from the Sunday night Q & A)
  • The Raymonds facilitate short-term mission assignments for professional photographers/videographers.  They will send them out to the field to help document a particular missionary or ministry. 
  • Prayer Requests:
    • Unsaved neighbors
    • Strength to face spiritual battles
  • visit their website - http://www.raymond.abwe.org/

Dan & Marsha Haynes

Dan & Marsha Haynes, Mali, FBM
  • "Serving the Lord as a long-term career missionary is not a sacrifice.  It is an honor and a privilege."  Dan Haynes (from Sunday night Q & A)
  • The Haynes have had a long and fruitful ministry in Mali.  
  • Prayer Requests:
    • With the unrest and unstable situation in Mali, the Haynes request prayer for clear direction for their future. 
    • Malian Christians - That God would strengthen them during these difficult times. 

Dan & Sherri Lethers

Dan & Sherri Lethers, pre-field ministry, headed to Togo, ABWE
  • Both Dan & Sherri worked at Word of Life.  It reminded me of the importance and value of summer camp.  Many individuals and saved and called into ministry at summer camp.
  • Prayer Requests:
    • The people of Togo
    • That God would provide the resources to build the radio station in Togo
    • That their family would thrive in Togo
  • visit their website:  http://hoperadio.abwe.org/lethers-family

Other Highlights:
  • Meeting Pastor Nouh, a persecuted Pastor from Mali - He spoke with so much passion and energy.
  • Pastor & Mrs. Nouh Yattara
  • Spending time with Colin & Teena Ovenell, (www.beninbound.org) FBM Missionaries from Benin.  They were passing through Winter Haven on their way to their home in Washington state.  It was good to spend some face-to-face time with them and to hear about their ministry.
Colin & Teena Ovenell

Thursday, March 7, 2013

Big Prayers, Big Answers (by Jonita Barram)


A Praying Church

       Have you noticed that some of Faith’s members are looking slimmer, healthier, more buffed? Would you believe that their appearance is an answer to a BIG prayer? Last March 4, small prayer groups prayed “that all of Faith Baptist Church will be good stewards of our relationships, our bodies, our families, our homes, our resources, and everything that God has given us to manage” (emphasis added). That is indeed a BIG prayer!
      Did God answer 100 percent of those requests in 100 percent of our membership—I like to think yes; some of us are just slower to respond, but the Holy Spirit is still working, still answering this BIG prayer.
And speaking of 100 percent of our membership, that membership has increased to at least 1,000, largely in answer to BIG prayers, like this one, also from Mar. 4, 2012: “That souls will be saved, new believers baptized, and that discipleship will happen at every level.”
      Or how about this BIG prayer, one that cannot be answered in the short-term: “That Faith Baptist Church will have the courage to see the FX vision all the way to the end—an entire community changed by the gospel”! All the children who have believed on Jesus Christ through the FX ministry are the fruits of this BIG prayer and the hope for “an entire community changed by the gospel.” Now we’re asked to pray for and give toward establishing the first Faith Baptist Refuge, a courageous step toward fulfillment of the FX vision.
      On Mar. 25, 2012, Faith members prayed “that God blesses our April Faith Day offering on Sunday.” With an offering of over $130,000, God’s answer was a big YES!  (You can read specifically about April Faith Day 2012 here.)

BIG Answers from the Past

Dot Malcolm, one of the church’s charter members, recalls some BIG answers to prayer.
     One of our deacons, Pete Jenks, was critically injured in an accident. This was when our church was new. He had a head injury; he had broken ribs, a broken hip. It was touch and go. His wife, a nurse, stood by him, took him home in a full body cast, she was working full-time, they had four children, they were living in a mobile home. We just prayed and prayed. She had to teach him the alphabet all over again; she had to teach him to feed himself—it was just amazing. Yet he had a quick recovery. And to this day you would never know about the injuries because he has been able to compensate because now his brain causes him to read backwards, but he’s done it so for so many years now that he’s used to it. That was a big prayer request and a big thing for our church to go through when we were just new.
     Even finding places to meet—God answered those prayers. God answered prayers for property. God answered prayers for our first pastor, Missionary Pastor Willard Benedict. Then when we had some really challenging times come along, God helped us through those. And then when we were two years without a pastor, God sent such wonderful men to the pulpit at that time who just kept our church going.
     A large prayer group formed, and we prayed and prayed for a pastor. God sent us Pastor Osborne, and that’s probably one of the biggest blessings our church has ever experienced, because he has taught us and shown us what we were and what we should be.
     Pastor is very plain about God not being pleased with a critical spirit, to love people where they are, and to try to see them as God sees them, where they’re going to be. All the discipleship classes available and Bible study groups available we never had before. And the programs—it seems like a lot of programs that our church is involved in, but they’re all helping to show people Jesus Christ. That’s our purpose. And they’re tools, and we’re just so privileged to have the people who can head up those programs and keep them going and give them insight as to where they want to be in a few years with that. And, of course, our pastor is a visionary. He stretches our faith, and that’s a good thing. So we have been challenged through the years, and God has been faithful to lead us along through the good and the bad times.
     We’re so thankful for where we are today, and we know that we have much to learn, and we’re eager to learn, eager to continue learning, and to be able to just serve the Lord on this corner and to reach out to the whole world where He sends us.
It is no surprise that Faith has been and continues to be a praying church.
     Dot says that large prayer group—about 30—met before every evening service. “We were just praying mainly for a pastor at that time,” she says. Over the years, “that prayer group has dwindled down to where there are two or three of us now, but we still meet—mainly to pray for different individuals in our church—people who are ill or people who are hurting or any specific need in our church.” This group still meets every Sunday evening at 5:30.

‘BIG Prayers’ Groups

     People in “BIG prayers” groups met the first three months of 2012 and have been meeting in these early months of 2013. Volunteers lead the groups, which comprise the leader and those he or she invites to join; and they meet when and where they choose. That’s not to say the groups are closed to newcomers. If you are interested in joining a “BIG prayers” group, contact the church office.

Other Prayer Groups

     Most of the “BIG prayers groups” disband after April FaithDay (the first Sunday in April), but the Faith family has plenty of opportunities to join other prayer groups that meet regularly.

I am privileged to attend a monthly meeting to pray for six or eight of our missionaries. Most of them work in connection with the USA. Then, once a month on Mornings for Missions, we meet together and remember the camp ministry at Camp Gilead and organizations that carry on missionary work if we have some requests from them.—Lorraine Hooser

Intense Prayer

In a letter dated Feb. 27, 2013, Pastor Osborne wrote:
     The Deacons and Prayer Leaders and I are urging and pleading with all of you to enter the month of March on your knees with us for a 31 day season of INTENSE PRAYER. Every day will find us—and I hope everyone of our church members—on our knees fervently praying for God to save souls in Winter Haven, praying that the baptismal waters would be constantly used, praying that God would show His powerful and victorious hand in establishing the first Faith Baptist Refuge, establishing Faith Baptist Christian Academy, and building a new auditorium that will be used to transform lives for generations to come. That Intense Prayer time will culminate on Easter Sunday March 31st with a service of Glorious Praise. I pray you and your family will join us in those days of INTENSE PRAYER.
     Our leadership has BIG faith, so they’re not afraid to ask God for BIG things. As a church family we have a BIG future of ministry to look forward to—because God gave the vision, honors our faith, and is glorified in granting our BIG requests.

How About You?
Which prayer group are you a part of?  To learn more about any of these prayer groups please contact our church office.

What is April Faith Day?


Have you ever heard of April Faith Day?  Hopefully, if you are a part of FBC, you will answer YES.  Every year since 2000, April Faith Day has been held on the first Sunday of April.  On this day, we take a sacrificial offering.  Over the years the purpose of the offering has varied.  Originally, April Faith Day started to help FBC pay off our debt.  Then the focus changed to help us begin funding Faith's 100.  Later, the focus changed again as we began a Building campaign.

One hallmark of April Faith Day is the gifts that are given away each year.  Each year, several gifts are given from the offering that is collected.  Since 2000, $223,500 has been given away.  Consider some of the gifts that have been given in the past.

  • $10,000 to help Russian children attend summer camp
  • $10,000 to help an African pastor buy a truck that will assist him in ministry
  • $10,000 to help an African school build and furnish a classroom building
  • $10,000 to help a church in The Philippines finish their building project
  • $5,000 to help a Haitian orphanage
  • many more gifts to local Camps, foreign missionaries, & other mission agencies
April Faith Day is always a significant day.  I encourage you to even now begin praying about what God would have you to do.  Don't make a quick decision in the car on the way to church.  Start praying and planning today.  Visit our April Faith Day page to learn specifically about April Faith Day 2013.

Here are some articles that have been posted on our blog about previous April Faith Days: