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| (Josiah Benton Simpson - born December 16, 2011) |
Dear Son,
It is hard to believe that you are finally here. When I look at you, I
see myself. It is a strange feeling. It feels like I have the
opportunity to start my life all over again.
Someday, you may be able to understand how amazing it is that you are
here. Your mother was pregnant 4 times. Each time,
she was fiercely sick. Our doctor has said that she
almost died two different times. After her third pregnancy, our doctor
strongly encouraged us to not have any more children. That was a
difficult message to hear. As time passed, we healed and prayed. We
sensed that God might want us to travel through one final pregnancy. God
chose to bless us with you, Josiah. It is important for you to realize
that God brought you into this world. Your birth truly was a miracle.
Son, it is my prayer that you will
grow up to be a godly man.
In order for this to happen, you must
submit to authority. This is
no easy task. Tragically, as you grow up, you will meet many men who have
never been taught this lesson. All of us are under authority. A
godly man submits to authority with a humble attitude. You will be under
someone's authority all of your life. There will be the authority of your
parents, teachers, boss, local church, government, and most all, God.
Son, I promise that I will help you learn to submit to authority. I will
endeavor to exemplify godly submission to authority in my own life.
Secondly, godly men work hard. God expects us to work hard and
to provide for our families. As you will see, too many men are
lazy. Many of them intentionally avoid working and allow others to
provide for them and their families. Josiah - Don't be lazy. Work
hard. Be a good steward of the body and mind that God has given
you. Again, I promise to exemplify hard work before you. It will be
easier for you to learn how to work hard if you see this quality in me.
Finally,
a godly man handles money wisely. Son, money is powerful. It
can do great things. It can also be very deadly and destructive.
Any money we have is given to us from God. He expects us to steward it
well. Josiah, I promise to teach you about money. I will teach you
how to spend it, how to save it, and how to give it away. I will teach
you this with my words as well as with my actions.
Being a godly man involves much more that these three principles. But,
the godliest men I know do all three of these things extremely well.
Josiah - I love you. I promise to tell you this with my words and with
my actions. I promise to love your mother and to stay faithful to her
because I know the consequences of failing to do this. I look forward to
talking to you and to listening to you. I look forward to the time that
God gives us together on this earth.
Love,
Daddy